Children of donors speak out
Katrina Clark, 21, and Lindsay Greenawalt,
25, were both conceived with donor sperm and raised by single mothers. Katrina
succeeded in finding her biological fathers and Lindsay failed. According to a
report from Associated Press, they are part of an increasingly outspoken
generation of sperm donor offspring. Speaking from experience, they have
advocated publically for the rights of sperm donor children, in particular
their right to know their biological fathers.
“The loss associated with being donor
conceived is something that I will carry for the rest of my life, and that to
deliberately create a human being with that loss is unethical,” Ms Greenwalt
wrote recently on her blog, Confessions
of a Cryokid.
All she knows about her father is that he
is 49, attended college, and has brown hair and greenish eyes. She knows a few
medical details, thanks to a recent update sent by her father to the Xytex
sperm bank in Augusta, Georgia. “He knows I’m looking for him — and he doesn’t
want to make contact,” Greenawalt said.
Ms Clark found her father fairly quickly.
However, their communication “has been pretty much nonexistent”, and they have
not met face-to-face. “I still wonder about him,” she added.
“There’s so much about him I still don’t know.”
US sperm banks are increasingly offering
identity-release policies, in which donors agree to allow their offspring to
contact them once they reach age 18. However, many donors still choose to
remain anonymous. A past president of the Society for Assisted Reproductive Technologies,
Dr Jamie Grifo of New York University’s Fertility Center, told AP that it is
not a good idea. “It may not be a popular point of view, but when these
decisions are made by donor and a parent, the child doesn’t have a say,”
he said. “If the contract is for it to be anonymous, it should remain
anonymous, and the child just has to deal with that.” ~
AP, Aug 16
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